Theres this guy i met a while ago and on the day we met he asked me out to the movies.I had to say no cuz of my parents.Anyway i really started liking him and he kissed me. he was the first time someone asked me out, first kiss, and first time i got attention from a guy like that. When i asked if he wanted to be w/ me he said no. I was always shy and nervous around him so i couldn't really let out my personality.I remember one time we were just sitting down together in silence cuz i couldnt think of anything to say After a while he started to ignore and avoid me at school. I feel like its all my fault cuz i was so shy and nervous around him. he couldnt see my personality.I cud have had him. He prolly thought i was obsessed with him too cuz i saw him a lot at school.=[ I hate myself im so stupid.For once I felt like i was gonna have a bf and I was the happiest girl, i guess i was just a foolone time i even asked him if he thought i was boring and he said yes and then took it back a few minutes later after i told him i was just shy and nervous around him....whatever

OK!first off u needa get over him!!then if u cant do that get some boy kiss him right in font of him!!!!!!

It was your first, you're ALLOWED to be nervous. Maybe next time around, you'll have a little more confidence, and you wont be shy cause you now know what it did to you before. Don't be embarassed, it happens to a lot of people.

I'm sorry that this happened to you. There are other guys out there you know so it's not the end of the world. It happens. I've had the same thing happen to me. We were great and good things happened but out of the blue she broke my heart. But NOW I have someone really special. More special than that one girl could ever be. I'm sure you will find someone better that actually loves you back. Loving someone who doesn't love you back is never a good thing. Good luck.

try to losen up around people practice it in crowds and and at school or parties. once your opening up to people it will be easier to attract more friends and maybe boyfriends.

You seem to of taken this all as if its your fault. Believe me its not. This guy has kissed you and maybe inadvertently made you crazy for him, or maybe he's a dick but anyway, its not your fault if your shy - I mean you made the first move by asking him if he wanted to be with you, which will of taken a load of guts. The guy has handled it badly tbf, but ITS NOT YOUR FAULT!Theres millions of men out there, you'll find one good for you ^^

1) Sit him down and talk to him. You really like him, don't you? So just tell him that you really like him and is just shy around him cuz' you like him. And ask for a second chance.Then tell him that he can get back to you on that.2) After that let him think of what he wants to do. So give him some space for a while. 3) Once you think he thought enough just ask him if he will give you a second chance. Hope the best works for youHope I could help!

Let him go he sounds like a jurk anyway. but you will be ok hold your head up highBut if you really want him act like you don't care and he can't have you becaues guys always want what they can't have

that succs at least its good that you went threw this cuz now you will know where you did wrong and try better next time cause it was your first experience i think you will pull it of laterhope i helped

This guy is obviously not right for you. You want to be in a relationship with someone who can give you attention. Don't hate yourself, when I first met my current boyfriend it was almost impossible for me to go anywhere with him when he asked because of my dad. Yet I never had to give him an explanation, he always understood and now admits that not being able to see me made him love me even more. I too was always shy around him and more than often couldn't even make a full sentence. But he loved me and was willing to love me even with a shy personality. Don't feel bad, it wasn't your fault, and if he's not willing to really get to know you, then he wasn't very much in love with you in the first place. Don't waste your time nor tears on someone like this, be happy and know that there is someone out there willing to love you just the way you are, you just have to get over the bad experiences and keep looking!